Monthly Archives: November 2014

My Manager has one sided thinking and it’s killing our department! The #1 reason managers are not great at their jobs.

My Manager has one-sided thinking and it’s killing our department! The #1 reason managers are not great at their jobs.

One of the greatest challenges facing a manager in today’s world is motivating their employees. We all know it but what are we doing about it?

You can read articles all across the spectrum about what an employee needs and wants out of the workplace and there are loads of opinions. The true determination of those articles is in the research they have done and the results that they show.

Here is what we know so far. Most, meaning 82% of all managers are not great at their jobs. Now don’t go getting all huffy on me or pretend like you are one of the 18% until you know that you are.

The number on reason most managers are not great at their jobs is because, (drum roll please), they are not good at admitting they are not the smartest person in their department.

And the number two reason is because they are not good at listening and receiving the opinions and ideas of others.

Most managers think they have to have the answer and usually that involves all of the answers. They huff and they puff and they stomp around getting upset whenever someone else tries to input other ideas.

Darren Hardy, a best-selling author and publisher of Success Magazine, says it this way, “Most everyone else in the organization is trying to keep everyone and everything out of the organization. They are saying “no” to things all day every day. It can become a knee-jerk reaction to everything. And they are spending most of their days doing the C-YA thing. New ideas only create risks and opportunities for them to fail… or more responsibility for them to burden.”

What most managers, again the 82% that are not great managers are doing, is worrying about that C-Y-A thing. Trying hard not to get caught in a mistake or worrying that someone else might take their job from them. What they fail to do is understand that, like the President of The United States, you don’t have to be the smartest person in the room if you will surround yourself with the smartest people.

What your bosses are actually looking for are leaders. They are wanting to find people who are willing to succeed at the expense of failure because they know all about leadership and success and therefore they understand that success comes at the expense of certain, limited, failures. They are looking for great ideas and initiative, and seeking the few people who understand what that takes. You, as a great manager, should be looking for the cream of the crop to surround yourself with and great people you can promote.

I have learned from many very successful people that they got ahead the fastest when they promoted great people who also recognized the potential of the boss who was promoting them. They in turn, lift those managers up both verbally to their superiors and also give accolades long after their days of working with them were over. This in turn led to those managers receiving bonuses and promotions.

So now tell me again, why do you have one-sided thinking? And how can you find some really good people with great ideas to help you achieve your goals, promote to your superiors and achieve great success?

Yes, I agree. Maybe we need to look at our people from a new perspective. Maybe you have a winning team sitting right in front of you.

I am Steve Sapato and I have been a manager, owner and business advisor for over thirty years. If you need more advice, weekly uplifting blogs like this then subscribe to my blog at http://www.mentalprosperityblog.com

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Football? Benjamin Watson? And Ferguson, Mo? Can we have some hope? Yes and here is why~

No, I didnt write this. A football player for the New Orleans Saints did. Read on.

At some point while I was playing or preparing to play Monday Night Football, the news broke about the Ferguson Decision. After trying to figure out how I felt, I decided to write it down. Here are my thoughts:

I’M ANGRY because the stories of injustice that have been passed down for generations seem to be continuing before our very eyes.

I’M FRUSTRATED, because pop culture, music and movies glorify these types of police citizen altercations and promote an invincible attitude that continues to get young men killed in real life, away from safety movie sets and music studios.

I’M FEARFUL because in the back of my mind I know that although I’m a law abiding citizen I could still be looked upon as a “threat” to those who don’t know me. So I will continue to have to go the extra mile to earn the benefit of the doubt.

I’M EMBARRASSED because the looting, violent protests, and law breaking only confirm, and in the minds of many, validate, the stereotypes and thus the inferior treatment.

I’M SAD, because another young life was lost from his family, the racial divide has widened, a community is in shambles, accusations, insensitivity hurt and hatred are boiling over, and we may never know the truth about what happened that day.

I’M SYMPATHETIC, because I wasn’t there so I don’t know exactly what happened. Maybe Darren Wilson acted within his rights and duty as an officer of the law and killed Michael Brown in self defense like any of us would in the circumstance. Now he has to fear the backlash against himself and his loved ones when he was only doing his job. What a horrible thing to endure. OR maybe he provoked Michael and ignited the series of events that led to him eventually murdering the young man to prove a point.

I’M OFFENDED, because of the insulting comments I’ve seen that are not only insensitive but dismissive to the painful experiences of others.

I’M CONFUSED, because I don’t know why it’s so hard to obey a policeman. You will not win!!! And I don’t know why some policeman abuse their power. Power is a responsibility, not a weapon to brandish and lord over the populace.

I’M INTROSPECTIVE, because sometimes I want to take “our” side without looking at the facts in situations like these. Sometimes I feel like it’s us against them. Sometimes I’m just as prejudiced as people I point fingers at. And that’s not right. How can I look at white skin and make assumptions but not want assumptions made about me? That’s not right.

I’M HOPELESS, because I’ve lived long enough to expect things like this to continue to happen. I’m not surprised and at some point my little children are going to inherit the weight of being a minority and all that it entails.

I’M HOPEFUL, because I know that while we still have race issues in America, we enjoy a much different normal than those of our parents and grandparents. I see it in my personal relationships with teammates, friends and mentors. And it’s a beautiful thing.

I’M ENCOURAGED, because ultimately the problem is not a SKIN problem, it is a SIN problem. SIN is the reason we rebel against authority. SIN is the reason we abuse our authority. SIN is the reason we are racist, prejudiced and lie to cover for our own. SIN is the reason we riot, loot and burn. BUT I’M ENCOURAGED because God has provided a solution for sin through the his son Jesus and with it, a transformed heart and mind. One that’s capable of looking past the outward and seeing what’s truly important in every human being. The cure for the Michael Brown, Trayvon Martin, Tamir Rice and Eric Garner tragedies is not education or exposure. It’s the Gospel. So, finally, I’M ENCOURAGED because the Gospel gives mankind hope

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